My 3-hour "GASLIGHITNG IS EVERYWHERE!" webinar video, recorded February 25, 2017, is available at http://www.selfloverecovery.com/store/index.php?l=product_detail&p=48 I am frequently asked the question, "can a person be a codependent and narcissist at the same time." Codependents ask this question because of their distorted sense of self and personal boundaries. As susceptible victims of mind control and brainwashing, or gaslighting, their reality is turned against them. They are convinced that when they want something, they are behaving selfishly. By convincing the codependent that they are selfish or narcissistic when they try to defend themselves or want something from the narcissist, they sense of power and control is effectively neutralized. Therefore, a codependent CANNOT be a narcissist. It is just impossible. Watch the video and see… Ross Rosenberg's latest book, The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap (2018) and his personal development, seminar, workshop and other services can be found at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com or www.HumanMagnetSyndrome.com. Ross Rosenberg’s work on codependency, narcissism, trauma, Self-Love Recovery™, and his "Codependency Cure™" has earned him international recognition. He owns Clinical Care Consultants, a multi-location Chicago suburb counseling center, and the Self-Love Recovery Institute. He has traveled to 30 states and twice to Europe to present his workshops. Ross's first book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome" sold over 50K copies and is published in French, Spanish and soon in Czech. His latest Human Magnet Syndrome book, a complete re-write of the first, is available on February 1st. Ross’s 7 million video views/68,000 subscribers YouTube platform has established him as global phenomenon. Ross owns Clinical Care Consultants, a counseling center located in Arlington Heights and Inverness IL. . Ross's articles at http://goo.gl/XEVxgE Dysfunctional Relationship Information. All of my articles at http://goo.gl/XEVxgE